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「Twinkle」

Posted on April 30, 2012 commentaires

TaeTiSeo 「Twinkle」【트윙클】- sorti le 4 avril 2012.

Voici donc le sous-groupe des SNSD composé des meilleures voix : Taeyeon, Tiffany, Seohyun, et bêtement nommé TaeTiSeo ou TTS. La chanson fait fortement penser à un mauvais Christina... Vous savez Christina Aguilera, la grosse blonde qui fait jurée dans 「The Voice」 américain.









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「Touch — Lost & Found」

Posted on April 19, 2012 commentaires


「Touch」 est la nouvelle série mettant en scène Kiefer Sutherland (le Jack Bauer capable de sauver les États-Unis en 24h chrono !). Mais de ça, on s’en fout. C’est dans le sixième épisode de la première saison que nous avons l’occasion de suivre un couple d’asiatiques lesbiennes, Lanny (Michelle Krusiec) et Serena (Camille Chen), essayant de concevoir un enfant. C'est donc une Gay Asian Alert !

Michelle Krusiec avait déjà été remarquée en lesbienne dans 「Saving Face」 réalisé en 2004 par Alice Wu.


Michelle Krusiec et Lynn Chen dans 「Saving Face」.

De son côté, Camille Chen est en couple avec Julie Benz dans la série 「Royal Pains」.


Camille Chen et Julie Benz dans 「Royal Pains」.
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AZN @ Scream Club 「THE FLIT」

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Samedi 21 avril, AZN recevra Gia et Brian Lee, membres de THE FLIT, groupe coréen aux multiple talents, mais surtout de la performance en club, gogos quoi. On ne connaît pas, mais vu de la stature du jeune homme, on est soudain très curieux !

C'est donc lui Brian

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Lia Incognita 「Racism and attraction: yellow fever, pity fucks and he’s just not that into you.」

Posted on April 12, 2012 commentaires
At the risk of mentioning Jet Li in two consecutive blog posts, I watched 「Romeo Must Die」 again the other day. I’d last watched it shortly after it was released in 2000 and remembered it fondly. Unsurprisingly, it turns out that it’s a terrible movie in pretty much every way. I should really never revisit adolescent favourites (except for 「The Craft」, that still holds up).

Nevertheless, it remains one of the only mainstream movies I can think of that features a central romance1 between a black woman (Aaliyah) and an Asian man (Jet Li) – two groups that arguably suffer the most from gendered racial stereotypes and how they play into norms of attractiveness.

The politics of sex is one of my top interests, along with anti-racism, so sexual racism is a topic that always catches my attention. Last week『Good Weekend』published an article on race-based attraction by Benjamin Law, in which he talks about prejudice against Asian men, especially among gay men. He mentions that Australian gay magazine『DNA』has had no identifiably Asian cover model in its 146 issue history, which for me is a no-brainer instance of racism.

Law also talks about profiles on Grindr (a smartphone hook-up app) stating “No Asians.” Sometimes I think racism no longer surprises me, but actually it regularly does. It surprises me that people will blatantly state “no Asians” not because I don’t expect people to have these attitudes but because I expect them to delude themselves into thinking it’s a coincidence. Or at the very least, I expect that they’d conceal their bigotry in case it turns off people they would like to fuck. Then again, as a sex-focused app, Grindr profiles tend to be fairly anonymous – headless torsos and minimal information. Douchebags of Grindr documents the racism, fatphobia, femmephobia, materialism and general arrogance common on the site.

Dating website OK Cupid shows a far greater disparity between stated attitudes to race, and actual behaviour in rates of reply to correspondents of different racial identities: while only 6 per cent of heterosexual users believed interracial marriage was a bad idea, 38 per cent stated that they would strongly prefer to date someone of their own skin colour or racial background, and men of all racial backgrounds replied to black women about 25 per cent less than they did to other women of a similar compatibility score. Notably, more than twice as many white users of all sexual orientations stated that they would strongly prefer to date someone of their own skin colour or racial background compared to non-white users.

But it is necessarily racist to have racialised preferences when it comes to sex and dating? Heather Corinna of sex ed website Scarleteen thinks not, and compares race to gender:

Whether we are attracted to men, women or both isn’t something we can really control. Who we’re attracted to is largely hardwired and often pretty random and individual.

The same goes with race, hair color, eye color, shoe size, height, weight, how a person dresses, what music they like, how long someone’s neck is, what their voice sounds like, how they move, who they vote for, what books they like … the whole kit and kaboodle. Who we find sexually attractive varies a whole lot between people, and while we get to choose who we date and who we are sexually active with, we don’t get to choose who we want to date and who we find attractive.

Sure, to some extent our preferences might be unfathomable, inexplicable and beyond our control. And to be honest, as an unsympathetic (or perhaps just unimaginative) pansexual I have to admit I don’t really understand gendered orientation either. But I’m unconvinced by the claim that if it’s not sexist to prefer (or rather, require) a particular gender, then it’s not racist to have racial preferences either. I’m pretty sure gender is a poor parallel for race in many situations, but especially when it comes to sex.

Gender aside, anyone can see that there’s a difference between having a thing for long necks or thick eyebrows and having “no fats, no fems, no Asians” as a kind of door policy. If your personal preferences are exactly in line with your (sub)culture’s dominant paradigm of beauty, desirability and disgust, you probably need to interrogate your desires. Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore (editor of『Nobody Passes』) says as much in Alex Rowlson’s article for fab magazine, 「Not just a preference」.

If we were living in a culture where everything was the same, it wouldn’t be a problem. But when sexual preference reinforces dominant systems of power in an unquestioning way, that’s when it becomes problematic.

Rowlson discusses a number of possible responses to exclusionary desires: Michael J Faris thinks they can be phrased in more specific or positive ways – for example, “I like hairy men” instead of “no Asians” if that’s the physical basis of the racial preference. ML Sugie argues that such a preference is no more valid, saying that “aesthetic reasons” are code for “unjustifiable hierarchies that I don’t want to explain”. Sycamore suggests confronting the bigots, and Raymond Miller proposes naming, shaming and boycotting them. Sugie says that the path to liberation is paved with “indiscriminate promiscuity” that ignores all the traits which are supposed to define the boundaries of our desires. Sluthood will in fact save the world.

But if finding an entire group of people unattractive usually comes from a place of hate, chasing isn’t any better. When my friends and I started flagging opinicus rampant, our blog reconsidering (gay male) hanky code from a pangender and feminist perspective, the first hankies we removed were the racial and fat fetish ones. While desiring a role or dynamic (such as seeking a top or a pony) is valid and hot, I’m uncomfortable with limiting the body such a role inhabits. Maybe that’s the difference between orientation and attraction.

That said, it’s worth noting that a preference for any minority or marginalised group is considered a fetish, while preferences for the dominant ideal usually go unstated and unchecked. What can you do when you don’t know if a rejection is based on dodgy “preferences”? I think consent means you always have to accept rejections graciously:

[R]ejection can be based on prejudice. It can be cissexist or racist or fatphobic or biphobic or ageist or ableist or anti-virgin or whatever else. And if someone voices those sentiments, you’re right to call them up on it. But nobody owes you an explanation on why they don’t want to fuck you or date you.


And what do you do if you have dodgy preferences, racial or otherwise? I think we need to be honest with ourselves. Don’t pretend to be into someone if you’re not, no one wants to be thrown a pity fuck when they could be doing something hotter. Like masturbating. But we also need to think about what forms our desires. Consider if your “type” is a received image or an inclination to repetition. Imagine what it would be like to be attracted to someone you might have ruled out for whatever reason. Seriously analyse and deconstruct what you find attractive. And be open to surprise.

1. Well, maybe more courtship than romance because they never even kiss. A quick search also brings up John Cho and Gabrielle Union on a tv show I’ve never heard of called 「FlashForward」, which from what I can gather might be a bit more satisfying if you’re looking for on-screen action.

Lia Incognita, is a Shanghai-born cultural commentator living in Boonwurrung and Wurundjeri country. Eir work focuses on marginalisation and resistance, and spans verse, prose, performance and broadcast. Lia has written for Overland, performed at La Mama Poetica and The Famous Spiegeltent, and spoken on panels for Cherchez La Femme, Beyond Borders and Colourfest. Ey also broadcasts for Queering the Air on 3CR Community Radio. Visit Lia at www.lia-incognita.com




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